North Country Fair 2014
North Country Fair is a large annual outdoor festival help on the Driftpile aboriginal reserve, about 40 minutes west of Slave Lake. It happens on the summer solstice, in June, which means the days are long and warm, and not just because few would rather sleep than stay up and party. There is music, camping, river fun, vendors, and self-expression galore.
This has been my third year coming to this festival, though only the first one as a volunteer. In the past two years I had come as a presenter, or tabler, once with Zeitgeist Edmonton and once with Edmonton Permaculture as well as my own NPO, the Eco-Redistribution Network.
My second year was much better than the first, and there were many highlights for me, including long days of slacklining and sore buttocks (from slacklining!), muddled relationships, and greater personal freedom. This year I was excited to go, mostly because of the slacklining again (though not so much the sore buttocks) and the fact that I would be camping out in semi-wilderness for 8 days, working in a kitchen, and meeting new people. This last, in fact, was something I felt nervous about at the same time. In previous years I had always gone with friends and that gave me a certain sense of comfort and ease, but this time around I went in not knowing who I would meet or who I would spend my time with.
It turns out that I spent most of my free time with myself. Despite being surrounded by what I estimated to be close to 1000 people, I favoured my own company over all others. This is not entirely unusual for me, mind, but it did leave me feeling somewhat perplexed and even disheartened.
In the first five days I spent 30 hours helping out in the volunteer kitchen as part of the Hospitality team, and though I met some wonderful people with whom I had plenty of great conversations and shared many laughs, I still felt like I was not connecting with anyone on a deeper level. Perhaps this was an unreasonable expectation on my part, but I did question myself and wondered why it was that no connection was taking place between me and my fellow volunteers, though I thought I could see them connecting with each other on the level which I myself craved.
I biked alone, swam alone, often ate alone. Not because I didn't wish to speak to other people, quite to the contrary. I simply felt more comfortable that way. I took daily bike rides to the corner store to connect with the outside world as there was no internet reception on the campsite, and this made me feel like even more of an outcast, though I knew that it was a condition I had imposed on myself.
By the time the festival proper got underway, on day six, the entire campsite was packed and unrecognizable from days before. People from all walks of life had pitched tents and campsites, there was music coming from multiple directions, cheerful greetings from passersby, and the revelry had begun.
One common theme which I noticed right away was the constant drinking, pot smoking, and yelling. I have no issue with the first two, though if done in excess they can certainly cause all manner of awkwardness, but the last one got on my nerves right from the start. It occurred to me that most people take holidays to get away from their daily lives which involve work, family, and self-restraint, so being in an environment where anything goes is an outlet for all kinds of urges normally suppressed. Being civil Canadians, our main outlet for all these suppressed urges seems to be screaming, most often for no specific reason. Some people scream at each other (not out of anger at all, merely because it's permitted!), others simply wail. Then there are the "woo" people. I'm not referring to folk of Oriental descent either, if I may steal a joke from Russell Peters. I'm talking about the people who, whenever something exciting occurs (or often not), scream "woo"! "Woo people" is a term I've borrowed from a friend of mine, and I'm grateful for it, as it perfectly describes this annoying and pointless sound which one most often hears at concerts and festivals. Needless to say, I try to do as little "wooing" as possible. When the fancy strikes me, I do a different type of wooing, of course, this one with a much more defined and sensual purpose.
Coming back to my previous point, I continued to feel isolated for the rest of the festival, until I decided to speak to someone about it. This person, with whom I share many qualities as well as travel experiences, though we hadn't met before, struck me as a loner herself, one who stood out from the rest of the crowd. I approached her and explained my dilemma. After talking for close to an hour, I felt relieved and suddenly not so lonely. Thank you again for your understanding and commiseration, Brie.
The highlights of NCF for me this year were, of course, slacklining, some of the musical artists which I discovered, finally learning how to produce sound from my didgeridoo, making new friends, the hour-long conversation I had with my friend Brian about science (we're not done with that one yet, Brian!), seeing a live beaver for the first time in my life (I think), and the idyllic meadow I discovered and relaxed in, and in which I caught a beautiful nymphet at a compromising moment. If she is reading this, I hope she blushes just a little.